iTunes | Spotify — If you feel like you are constantly attracting low-quality men into your life, I’m breaking down how to explore and address the beliefs you hold about yourself that are causing you to attract the wrong partners, and how you can shift into attracting the high-quality partners you deserve and desire! Note: […]

There are many differences between men and women, not least of all the traits that we look for in partners. I see far too women struggling to call in love, just because they don’t get what men actually desire (it’s way deeper than just a beautiful face and a nice body). In this 6-minute video […]

find me on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher — I had the opportunity to coach an amazing woman named Sarah for this week’s episode of Rise in Love.  Sarah is probably like many of you in that she falls in love fast and she considers herself a woman who loves deeply and hard. But, of […]

A nice guy isn’t the same as a good man…you need to know the difference. When I first realized that I had a pattern When I first realized that I had a pattern of being attracted to and attracting men that were emotionally unavailable (to me) I tried to reverse the pattern. I thought, maybe […]

Four ways to figure out if you’re dealing with a nice guy or a good man, they aren’t the same: ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 1 | A GOOD MAN IS GROUNDED V. A NICE GUY IS INSECURE AND SEEKS REASSURANCE ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ A good man knows who he is and has self-esteem and confidence within himself. It’s not arrogance […]

Too many women use the period of dating (before a committed relationship) to try and get someone to be their boyfriend, instead of doing what you *should* be doing during this time. You hate this phase. You say, “I don’t like dating,” “I’m just a relationship kind of girl,” and a bunch of other BS […]

Trying to win him over. Trying to prove your love, your loyalty. Beneath him. Bowing down. Praying your subservience is enough. Enough to compel him Enough to move him Enough to galvanize him His body responds lovingly. Or is it lustfully? Several times. Yet his interest wanes with the newness. He gives less and less, […]

You don’t trust yourself. How could you possibly trust a man? You meet a man without knowing anything other than he sets butterflies a flight in your belly. You’re hooked. You’re ready and you want it. Badly. Badly enough that you don’t gather further information. Requisite information. You just want to hear the words. Nevermind […]

Living Together is Not the Same As Marriage The same way you tell your audience and clients that there’s transformation in the transaction. That a major shift occurs as soon as they put down cold, hard cash because that’s where the work begins. Well, it’s the same with men putting down their cold hard cash […]

I have clients and students ask, “well, what should I say in this situation?” “What should I text him when he says this?” “Should I do this particular action if I want him to fall in love with me and be with me forever so that I don’t have to be single any longer?” And […]