All it took was a shift in her energy, her certainty, and her standards for Michelle to EMBODY everything she already KNEW. Michelle went from single to coupled up with the love of her life in 5 months. She says, “it’s because of the work we did together that I was able to QUANTUM LEAP when it came to love.”
She and her partner are a match made in heaven. She has the happiest, best relationship she’s ever had with a man who is literally everything she ever wanted. She says, “he is the absolute love of my life. I have never been treated so well by a man and it’s because Crystal showed me how to truly hold my standards.”
They now live together in their dream home.
I helped Michelle recognize where her standards were actually low and keeping her from the kind of relationship she truly desired.
Together, we raised her standards, shifted her energy, upgraded her Love Blueprint and changed the way she was approaching dating.
I helped her see her blind spots.
I could see her more clearly than she could see herself.
When she doubted, I had certainty.
In her own words: “Crystal held me through so much when it looked like it ‘wasn’t working.’ She held my vision when I couldn’t.”
Her energy shifted into the vision she had crafted and seemingly overnight she went from being hurt over some guy that wasn’t on her level in the first place, to meeting her partner: the love of her life.
They both recognized immediately that they’d finally found “their person.”
No games. No confusion. No mixed messages.
They were clear on their feelings and the intention of their relationship from day 1.
You get the love you want when you know you can have it.
When you believe that it’s yours.
When your subconscious, your nervous system, and your conscious mind are all on board with exactly what you want.
So the question was just -- how would we get the knowledge she so readily conveyed to others to actually *click* in her own life?
The men Michelle was meeting weren’t treating her like the most beautiful, brilliant, and dynamic woman they’d ever been with -- which she undoubtedly was.
But more like…an option -- which she undoubtedly was not.
A kind, hilarious, gorgeous, smart woman is always a prize -- never an option.
I knew this.
She knew this.
Her subconscious didn’t.
As so often happens when women are ready for a relationship but they keep meeting men who are not -- she began to separate from the TRUTH of who she actually is and she bought into their watered-down half truths.
Believing things like…
…The half-hearted-sometimes effort these guys were giving was the best there is
…it’s so hard and rare to find decent guy so you better hold onto anyone you catch because another one might not come around for awhile
…I’ll never get what I truly want so I should accept whatever is here…
POPPYCOCK!
She signed up to work with me with zero hesitation. High level of enthusiasm. And ready to dig in and do the work.
Now the thing that’s interesting about Michelle is that as a love coach herself, she already *knows* about love, manifestation, and self love.
So what that means is I didn’t have anything new to *teach* her, per se. She already knew everything. In fact, she’s helped countless women increase their confidence, call in love, get married, and build lives with their OWN dream partners.
So when I say she knew everything, I mean she really knew it. Well enough to teach it, coach on it, and help other women create their own transformations.
Michelle knew her stuff.
The men showing up were not measuring up.
This woman is fierce. And stubborn. And smart. And powerful. She knew there was something she was missing in herself.
One of Michelle’s friends was already a client of mine and had recently met her own dream guy.
Michelle was ready to get her guy, too.
She’s the best. She’s used to the best. She wanted the best.
Enter me ;-)
She says, “working with Crystal was a game changer for me. I AM a love coach myself and yet felt I needed some extra support, so I hired Crystal. And boy, am I glad I did.”
When Michelle first came to me she was somewhat mysteriously struggling to meet men on her level.
This is the kind of woman that has literally everything going for her.
Gorgeous. Check.
Kind. Check.
Fun AND funny. Check. Check.
Smart, successful, sexy. Check. Check. Check again.
Naturally, she had no trouble attracting men.
But getting the kind of man she really wanted to actually show up for her the way she desired and knew she deserved?
A different story.
Multiple 6 Figure Intimacy and Success Coach Struggling to Meet Men on Her Level to Happily Living with the Love of Her Life: a Sexy, Successful, Kind, Fun, Conscious Man
Michelle
Ashleigh came to me because she was ready to call in her husband, but she actually used my methods to manifest some other huge changes in her life first. Before calling in her husband, she called in a new job as well as new friends.
Ashleigh actually went through something a lot of women do when they implement my methods: she started attracting higher quality men right away and she thought she met “the one.” They were intense at the beginning and then he ended things pretty unceremoniously and she was really disappointed.
But unlike a lot of women, Asheligh focused on healing herself, re-aligning with her vision, and really really increasing her feminine magnetism. She reached a palace where she was so certain of the love she was gonna get -- she knew it was inevitable. And then she met her amazing man.
She went from single to married in less than a year. He absolutely adores her. They have so much fun together. He treats her better than she’s ever been treated. And she’s blown away by what an incredible man he is. They had her dream wedding, and recently welcomed their first child.
" I had never experienced a guy this quality before."
They quickly fell for each other, made the relationship official, and began planning for their future.
In March they were engaged and they got married in July in a beautiful wedding. Shortly thereafter they discovered Christie was pregnant, and they recently welcomed their beautiful daughter.
...and went on the other 3 dates.
None of those guys stood out like Dave did.
She followed my coaching and teachings to a T. She says, “ he made his desire for me and only me perfectly clear. Zero mixed messages. Zero empty promises. Zero games. And yet, he was patient and kind and not pushy, but still completely clear about his intentions. He was IN. IT. So much so that his emotional health and clear communication almost scared me away.
kept repeating my words that, “it’s this or something better” and “I’m easy to love, easy to lose”
Eventually, I got the intuitive nudge to start online dating and I decided to join Tinder because of the sheer number of people available. She said, “before Crystal, I would have let my preconceived ideas about Tinder tell me that it’s trashy and all I’ll find on that site is trash and that I need to move on to the next one on the list. But I knew better now. I wanted the numbers on my side. I knew that what I put out is what I was going to get back and I’m not trashy so I will attract non-trashy guys ... on Tinder.”
She created her account, set up a deeply genuine and authentic bio, posted some picture, and then she, “waited ... I wasn’t in a hurry. I wasn’t desperate or hungry. BUT I WAS READY. I told my mom, my sister and my sister in law that I was going to get married and be pregnant by the end of the year. I showed them all my Tinder and let them read some of my messages and laugh with me at how ridiculous some of the profiles were. I’m not sure that any of them knew how much I believed that I was TRULY going to meet my man within the year, get married and have a baby but ... they didn’t tell me I was crazy and they enjoyed the (short) ride with me.
She had an incredible time with Dave, but...
here's what she said:
Crystal taught personal responsibility and self-awareness that people were usually too scared to say to my face and I was There. For. It. I ate it up.”
she decided to take radical responsibility for her love life. she said:
Before finding me, Christie was celebrating her 30th birthday and feeling deeply frustrated and depressed. A close friend shared my Instagram with her. She’d been single for 9 years at that point and was open to transformation. She’d been dating casually for 5 years, but never got past the first or second date. Not only that, but she wasn’t drawing in the quality of man she truly desired.
She decided that she serious about calling in love and she fully committed to studying and implementing everything I teach and coach on.
FROM 5 YEARS NEVER GETTING PAST A FIRST OR SECOND DATE TO MARRIED TO THE LOVE OF HER LIFE WITH A BRAND NEW BABY…
Christie
According to a study conducted by Harvard University, successful, high-earning women are statistically less likely to get married than women who earn less.
According to a study conducted by Harvard University, successful, high-earning women are statistically less likely to get married than women who earn less.
This highlights an opportunity for empowered decision-making in modern dating. In today's dynamic world, where career success and personal fulfillment are celebrated, many successful women like you are navigating a landscape where you’re not *supposed* to care about wanting a man, relationship, or family.
Saying you want to reach the next level in your career and doing everything in your power to make it happen?
Heck ya!
Saying you want a loving, committed relationship and will do what you can to make it happen?
Yikes!
And this discrepancy is a HUGE problem because choosing the right man to spend your life with is extremely important.
What if you could gain clarity on the qualities that truly matter in a partner and use this insight to attract a high-caliber man who not only appreciates your achievements but also enhances your life in meaningful ways?
Picture yourself equipped with strategies and wisdom that empower you to navigate the complexities of modern dating with confidence and purpose.
This isn’t just about finding any relationship; it’s about creating a deep, meaningful connection with a high-quality, commitment-minded man who adds richness and joy to your life.
After reviewing the details of working together privately if you think this is a great fit, please apply to work together and provide as much information as possible. Your application is to help us know if we’re a good fit to work together.
I will personally review your application. If we’re a good fit, I’ll reach out via Instagram DM. At that time, we can have a chat via DM, you can ask any questions you have about the program, and I’ll send you a link to the acceptance page.
After you’ve been accepted, you’ll need to tap into your own intuition and determine if joining Extraordinary Love 1-on-1 is the perfect thing for you. You’re also free to chat with me via DM to ask any questions you still have!
You’ll have 48 hours from when you’re accepted enroll, if you choose to. There’s no pressure or obligation.
1:1 elite coaching program for spiritual women entrepreneurs, coaches, conscious leaders, and powerhouse professionals to go from single to happily coupled up with your person.
For years I struggled with love.
I was living in Los Angeles. Working as a lawyer. And on paper, had everything going for me. I was a catch.
And yet I experienced nothing but heartbreaks, bad dates, and situation-ships. I felt so ready to meet my person, but it just wasn’t happening.
Finally, for the first time ever, I decided to take complete and full responsibility over my love life.
Going into the new year I declared it The Year of the Man.
I released my old patterns. Got crystal clear on what I wanted and needed. I rewired my brain for the love I wanted. I fully aligned with having good love. And I discovered how to be magnetic to the kind of high-level, commitment minded man I actually wanted to be with.
Within the year I was engaged.
I’m now happily married to the love of my life. We have 3 children together. And I’ve dedicated my life to helping other women create happy, healthy, loving, committed relationships.
I was able to distill my process into a step-by-step method and I’ve spent the past 6 years coaching and teaching other women how implement this method to create happy, healthy, loving, committed relationships.
Over the past 2 years I’ve averaged more than 2 engagements per month.
My clients keep their standards high, refuse to settle, and are able to get EXACTLY what they want.
But that's only because they focus on the INNER work -- the work that truly matters to experience massive transformation and magnetize love.
That’s what we’re doing in Extraordinary Love.
Apply to work with me and let’s magnetize your man.
When it comes to dating as a highly successful woman, it’s no secret that more and more women are choosing to stay single.
And it makes sense: it can feel impossible to find someone who is able to match you in a good way and might feel more worth it to stay single.
You want a man who is truly on your level. Someone you can call a partner in every way so that you can move into the next phase of your life.
The phase of life where it’s not just the success, the money, the achievement…
…but also the loving, kind partner
…but also the commitment, the engagement, the wedding…
…but also, the family, the warmth, and the vision of a future finally becoming clear.
You might be feeling like no one you meet is ever right…
You might be struggling to create a vision for your future without the right person by your side…
You might be desiring children and family, but unsure if you should move forward on your own or hold out hope that you might actually meet the right person…
But it doesn’t have to be this way.
So many of my clients start in the same position: yearning for love, struggling to find the right fit, and putting their lives on hold, waiting for the right person to show up.
I did the same thing, but I’ve made it to the other side. I’m now happily married, a mother of three beautiful children with my incredible husband, and I’ve coached hundreds of women just like you to create the happy, healthy, loving, committed relationships they desire and deserve.
Even though it may seem like there just aren’t enough men on your level.
I’m telling you: your man is out there.
If you’re looking for him, he’s looking for you too.
This goes beyond just wanting a boyfriend or wanting someone to have fun with.
Choosing the person you’re going to spend your life with is a top predictor of both life success, happiness, and satisfaction.
This decision is not one to be taken lightly.
And yet, the vast majority of people just wish, wait, and hope that it will eventually happen for them.
Instead of wishing, waiting, and hoping, I take my clients through a process so that they can actually call in the happy, healthy, loving, committed relationships they desire and deserve.
Imagine the comfort of knowing that you are loved deeply and authentically by a man who values your independence and admires your strength.
Imagine waking up each morning to his gentle affirmations, reminding you of the powerful woman you are and how much he respects your journey. His admiration isn't just in words but in actions that speak volumes—supporting your ambitions, celebrating your achievements, and standing by your side through every challenge and triumph.
Imagine a relationship built on mutual respect and understanding, where your individuality is cherished and your dreams are encouraged to flourish. This profound connection fills your heart with unwavering confidence, knowing you've found a partner who sees and embraces every facet of who you are.
"I actually went from single to married in less than a year, I just wish I'd found Crystal 10 years earlier! I found Crystal and I had just left behind a relationship. I knew I had to break out of an unhealthy cycle. Now I’m happily married to a wonderful man. He’s s fun, funny, consistent, and kind.
I’m so happy I decided to invest in myself. There’s such power in investment. It’s a HUGE part of self care. If I have a goal, I ask myself ‘what can I do to bridge that gap and meet that goal?’ I feel like working with Crystal in this course bridged that gap for me. Everything with my husband was so aligned from the beginning. No confusion. No hesitation. I cannot believe I actually went from single to married in a year!'
She committed 100%. To the work. To herself. And to her man, when she found him. She came to me because she wanted to get MARRIED. None of this, “oh, I’d maybe like to find my next boyfriend or ideally my soulmate and just see how it goes” bullshit. She knew what she wanted and she claimed it.
She didn’t assume that even though she hadn’t yet created what she desired she still somehow knew exactly how to create it. No, she came to me because she wanted help and she embraced my guidance with both arms.
She MASTERED THE ENERGETICS OF MAN-IFESTING LOVE. Chelsea was already great at manifesting in her life, but she had no idea what it truly took to magnetize love with a high-frequency man. We took the work beyond vision boarding and affirmations so that she could actually manifest a man who had EVERYTHING she desired down to her height requirements.
Chelsea went from single to engaged in less than 6 months DURING the 2020 Coronavirus Pandemic. She and her husband were married in January 2021 in her dream wedding.
Chelsea says, “It is the most amazing feeling to be with someone who wants you as much as you want them. It’s true love. Looking back at relationships I had in the past, they just weren’t even on the same level. From day one, he’s just truly made me feel like a queen. Crystal, I can’t thank you enough because working with you completely changed my mindset. I’m SO thankful I worked with you!”
So what did she do…
...her ambition, success, and outgoing personality would be a PERFECT FIT for HER PERSON and one of the most attractive things about her. Not “intimidating” or something that would drive a good man off.
...so long as she accepted stale breadcrumbs when she wanted a 7-tier wedding cake with custom cake toppers with an uncanny resemblance to Barbie and Ken, she wouldn’t be able to create the kind of massive transformation and epic soulmate love she craved.
...95%+ of the high-earning, ambitious, successful women I work with *think* they’re being too picky and I’ve YET to have a client where that was actually the case. Lowering her standards wasn’t going to help her attract the Man of Her Life (and it won’t help you either)
Here’s the truth...
..“maybe I’m expecting too much,”
...“maybe he’ll change over time,”
...“maybe I’m too intimidating to the kind of masculine men that I truly desire.”
Um, no.
I get the logic, but that’s just not how that works.
She thought...
But in practice? They were not showing up like men in love who at long last had finally found their queen to love and cherish, but more like travelers seeking to invoke Westerosi Guest Rights with a warm bed and a meal as respite from the night’s cold after stumbling across her doorstep.
One doesn’t stumble across the doorstep of a goddess.
But they didn’t recognize her as such because like so many other successful women, she lowered her standards in a last ditch effort to get what she wanted.
When she first came to me she was clueless on how to get from the butterflies and excitement of initial infatuation to the seemingly delicate dance of dating in a way that would actually get a guy to commit. (I say seemingly because dating only SEEMS like a challenge when you’re expanding and contracting your energy as you’re trying to GET something from a man that he doesn’t want to give happily. Once you’re in an expansive energy with YOUR person the relationship can be fun, easy, and aligned so that you can quickly move into commitment with clarity and certainty.)
She found herself stuck on a humiliating hamster wheel: meet a guy, start to like him, he ghosts, meet a guy, start to like him, he ghosts, and on and on. That had been her pattern for a year when she had her FTS moment and hired me. (FYI, there’s no need to wait til you’re at that moment that you feel like you can’t take it anymore to hire me).
She didn’t realize she was settling because the guys she was meeting were great on paper. “Total catches that she should be lucky to have!” Good looking. Well off. Ambitious. Blah blah blah.
Neither did Chelsea.
Technically she went from single to ENGAGED in 3 months, but to many of you reading this that just sounds “impossible” or “crazy” or “desperate” (even if you’d love nothing more than to be engaged to your person) and you’d poo poo everything that follows ONLY because you don’t yet understand the TRUTH about time and how to collapse it.
7-FIGURE ENTREPRENEUR STRUGGLING TO GET PAST THE THIRD DATE TO ENGAGED WITH A 5 CARAT ENGAGEMENT RING TO HER KIND, DRIVEN, THOUGHTFUL, ROMANTIC, FUN SOULMATE (not to mention he’s also GORGEOUS, TALL, WEALTHY and FIT, and absolutely adores her.)
Chelsea Coleman
Orlane went from single to married in less than a year.
She prioritized her feminine magnetism and subconscious alignment, listening to the subconscious reprogramming daily.
She became the most magnetic version of herself. She manifested her husband exactly, as if out of thin air. He literally walked into her office!
"I'd never even had a boyfriend before joining Crystal's program. Now I'm ENGAGED to someone wonderful! He's outgoing, funny, respectful, and understanding and smart. He puts my needs and wants as a priority. He's just really thoughtful and sweet. He makes me feel so special.
I'm so happy — I didn't think I'd end up with a someone so quickly!
Crystal was always there for me and I felt so supported every step of the way. Thank you -- so thankful that I found your program."
A great relationship is available for you. There are great men out there. Including your person.
It’s not your job to go out and hunt for him.
It’s your job to magnetize him.