In an era of “unavailable men,” dating app horror stories and social media comparison mind games, I stand for creating something better for yourself.

Simply put, everyone deserves love … but not everyone is doing what it takes to build real, lasting, thriving romantic relationships. 

Meet Crystal

I would know, because this was my story, too. Pining after men who’d made it completely clear they were simply uninterested in committing to me. Working entirely too hard at “preserving” relationships that were headed nowhere, and certainly not toward commitment. Doing the same old thing, over and over again, expecting a different result, when finally the right guy would come along. 

When all of a sudden my lightbulb moment came to me — Newsflash, Crystal: you’re the common denominator here. 

Now, am I saying there was something wrong with me and that’s why I wasn’t attracting the kind of man I wanted to be with? No, I most certainly am not. After all, I was building the life I wanted to live in all other aspects. But I was going about dating all wrong. I went on hundreds of dates, joined all the apps, took all the courses, read all the books, and I even tried online matchmaking.  

Now, my husband and I wouldn’t be together today had it not been for one of those apps — truly, we wouldn’t even know each other. But it was me, my patterned beliefs (feeling unworthy, unloveable and that anything healthy was too good to be true) that nearly prevented me from ending up happily married to Kobi. 

And, that’s when I learned one of the most important lessons that brought me to make a career out of helping women change the choices and actions that aren’t serving them to magnetize their perfect match.  

If we don’t change our patterns of behavior, we run the risk of ending up unhappily ever after.

Too many women are trying to play a game devoid of rules except a generally-accepted set of patterned behaviors (none of which are serving any of us, mind you) thinking that one day it will pay off differently than it has in the past—which is actually, not ironically, the definition of insanity. 

It’s time to get it right. It’s time to take a stand for what we all deserve: real, honest, lasting, passionate love. A love that’s forged not in games and silly facades, but built on the firm foundation of confidence, self-assuredness, and meet-them-or-move-on standards. 


Your person is out there. Let’s find the program that’s best for you so you can date with confidence and call in the man of your life—because what’s the fun if he stays in your dreams? 


I never thought I would sign up for any sort of relationship course, but I felt drawn to this one and I am so happy with my decision. I took a long hard look at myself to remove blocks, wrong patterns and false limits I didn’t even know were there. I am confident in the future of my love life.


 Now, I know I won’t play a certain role to avoid scaring away an emotionally-unavailable guy. Instead, I’ll give an emotionally-available guy the time and space to make the effort to be with me.


I went through Breakup Bootcamp and found healing, then I followed your steps for Magnetizing Love and I did it! I manifested him! Recently I started dating a guy I met at work — I felt attracted but stayed away initially. We built a friendship, and now we’re moving toward commitment. I’ve even met his family. Your work is gold.


Through Crystal’s coaching, I manifested what was truly important to me in a relationship and what type of man I was seeking. By doing this, it kept me from considering any potential man who wasn't what I wanted or needed in my life, no matter how enticing it seemed at the moment. I've found a wonderful man. He fits the list — all of it...


I found patience and calm — I know my man is out there, in existence and on his way. I’ve learned to quiet my mind and shut down the questioning and limiting beliefs.  


I found patience and calm — I know my man is out there, in existence and on his way. I’ve learned to quiet my mind and shut down the questioning and limiting beliefs.  


Crystal taught me to be ready and willing to receive, instead of constantly putting in effort in a way that never came back to me. I’m now with a man who serves me constantly — cooks for me, makes me coffee, changes my oil, buys me gifts — all without me asking

Kelsey S.

About Crystal

I was born in Detroit, went to boarding school in Connecticut for high school, then to college and law school in California. I followed an intuitive nudge, and moved to New York when I set the intention at the start of 2016 to call in my husband—three months later he found me. 

Three of my favorite movies are Titanic, Clueless and 10 Things I Hate About You. What can I say? I love a good, redemptive love story. 

If you stick with me for a bit you’re going to get used to a well-timed pop culture reference. Some of my favorites? Friends, Sex & The City, and Game of Thrones. Toss in a good nod to British Royalty (I’m more of a Duchess than a Princess any day!) and we’re good to go. 

Kobi and I love a good adventure — we went on safari for our honeymoon in Tanzania and Zanzibar. Some of my favorite places are Los Angeles, New York City, Paris, London & Bali. 

My husband, Kobi, and I got married in 2017 and are the proud parents of our rescue pups, Lulu & Lemon. We welcomed our beautiful daughter, Elizabeth, on December 25, 2020. 

the coach


five fast facts


I’m a Charlotte from Sex and the City mixed with Olivia Pope from Scandal and a dash of Khaleesi from Game of Thrones—I can’t choose just one. Optimistic, determined, loving, and bold: that’s me. I’m a sure-of-myself woman, dressed in classic style with a confident air of knowing my true value and worth. 

FACT No. 1

I went on hundreds of dates, used the dating apps, paid for online matchmaking, took the courses and read ALL THE BOOKS. Now? I’m happily married to a man I moved across the world for and would do it again a million times over. I’m proud of the woman I became from the lessons I learned, and now I get to share them.

FACT No. 2

I love to read (WWII historical non-fiction, pop-psychology and personal development, please!), watch the latest binge-worthy shows, travel and I LOVE MUSICALS. Even brilliant geniuses like me have to take a break from dropping knowledge bombs and changing the way millennials approach love and relationship to just chill out and have fun.

FACT No. 3

I leave the sugar-coating for my candy, thank you very much. This process isn’t about hearing what you want to hear, continuing to do what you’ve always done and expecting different results. It’s about making a transformation in how you approach the world, and stepping into a new energy and way of being. 

FACT No. 4

Don’t peg me for a woman who has on rose-colored glasses in the form of a diamond ring on her left hand. I remember what it took to get to where I am today—so does my husband—and I believe I wouldn’t be married today if I hadn’t been willing to do something differently. I’m here to help, not tell you it’ll all get better in time.

FACT No. 4


Whether you’re coming out of a breakup or ready to manifest the love of your life (or both!), I offer a handful of courses and services that can help you shift your energy and get you on your way.

Take my quiz to find out your love type and how it affects your dating life. Plus, get my tips on how to use your perspective to your advantage with your relationship success secrets and personalized recommendations and resources.


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Listen to my podcast, The Rise In Love Podcast. We are changing the narrative within 21st century dating & relationships to help high-achieving women increase their magnetism and manifest the relationship of their dreams. 

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