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You have everything in the world…except the loving relationship. And it’s coming down to one thing you need that you’re missing. I see that you have a type that you’ve been unwilling to reconsider, but it’s officially time to reconsider. Each of your relationships ends in heartache, and the men and the circumstances are more […]

I have clients and students ask, “well, what should I say in this situation?” “What should I text him when he says this?” “Should I do this particular action if I want him to fall in love with me and be with me forever so that I don’t have to be single any longer?” And […]

first date obligations Today’s episode is a little nugget of wisdom about first dates that was sparked from a conversation with one of my private 1:1 coaching clients. Have you ever been on a first date and felt like he should be obligated to call you afterwards, even if he isn’t interested? Or you to […]

Crystal Irom

Summary What if you like someone you are dating, but you are hesitant to call it a relationship? Today, I’m diving into a topic that was sparked by a conversation with one of my clients. Does not calling a relationship a relationship make things easier or take the pressure off? I don’t feel this is […]

Husband & Wife

find me on: iTunes | Spotify | Stitcher — “Relationships take work.” Have you heard this one before? Maybe you’ve even told yourself this as reassurance when you enter a relationship and it feels hard. Ladies, early relationships should not be hard. Remember, ease is not a bad thing, and you’re not more noble for […]

Crystal Irom relationship coach for successful women explains the difference between living together and marriage

Love Languages Have you heard of love languages? It’s a pretty popular concept that originated with a book by Gary Chapman, and it describes five ways that people innately give and receive love. Your love language says a lot about not only how you communicate in the context of dating and relationships, but also any […]

Ugh! It’s so frustrating that the guys you’re SO into seem to want to play games, but the ones you don’t like are ALL about you. Well, it’s not random. Here are three reasons it keeps turning out that way… 1 | You’re your most authentic self with the ones you don’t like There is […]

Holding hands

Have you ever felt like you have recurring themes in your relationships? Like you always seem to date men who keep themselves at a distance or are the jealous, clingy type? Do you have a hard time getting close to men in relationships? Or do you, yourself, often find that you need a lot of […]

A common relationship question revolves around guys who are unavailable. Maybe you’ve dated some; guys who say they “don’t want a girlfriend” or aren’t “into titles?” Sometimes it can just feel like since we like the guy so much, that if you wait around for him things will shift and that the relationship you wanted […]

I get so much inspiration from the amazing women posting about relationships in my private Facebook group, Magnetizing Love. Today’s episode digs into this juicy question: “I met this guy online. We’ve been texting for about a month and have gone on one date. Is it OK for me to turn him down when he […]