A common relationship question revolves around guys who are unavailable. Maybe you’ve dated some; guys who say they “don’t want a girlfriend” or aren’t “into titles?”

Sometimes it can just feel like since we like the guy so much, that if you wait around for him things will shift and that the relationship you wanted will be possible. But is this actually true?

These guys can be super fun and charming, but will they still be that way if and when they actually become your boyfriend?

In today’s episode I’m breaking down several problems that come with chasing an unavailable guy, and why we even seek out these relationships in the first place.

Then I’ll show you actionable steps you can take to help bring your awareness to the situation and help you move out of it.