I hear you! And you’ve gotta follow your gut when it comes to investing money in yourself.
When I was single, I would have given my right arm for a program like this. (I’m a leftie, but still). And I did invest a ton in coaching and education before I called in my husband. But every time an opportunity came up, I had to mull it over.
What I always came back to is what I said above:
Money is a renewable resource. And finding the love of my life is invaluable.
But you have to decide for yourself: what would it be worth to you? If this program does even a fraction of what it claims and you could become more confident, magnetic, and release your old patterns and limiting beliefs about love and relationship, would it be worth it to you?
For you to have a love expert and enthusiasm practically sitting on your shoulder coaching you as you change your beliefs, shift your perceptions, and take on a new approach to dating, would that be worth it to you?
If a year from now you were fully committed to the love of your life with a diamond ring on your finger and a wedding to plan, would that be worth it?
You know how when people get engaged, the guy is expected to put down cold-hard cash and buy a ring to show their commitmen? It's because there’s always transformation available in the transaction. It's the same sorta thing here: when you’re willing to give up some of your hard earned cash, that’s a clear strong signal to the universe that you’re committed to calling in the relationship you desire.
Q: I’m really interested, Crystal, but the price is a bit much for me.
I know you’re a busy woman. And the truth is, you’re not afraid of spending time on things that matter, are you? You’re afraid of wasting time.
And the whole point of this course is to keep you from wasting time.
Because I wasted a ton of time. I did all the things to call in my perfect match, but in this 6-week program, I am giving you the shortcut.
We’re going into the heart of the matter so we can focus on the things that make a difference and skip right over those things that are a total time waste.
In fact, that is why I think it’s so powerful to invest in a program like this.
Money is a renewable resource. We spend it, we make more. Becoming the most magnetic, attractive, and happy version of yourself? Calling in the love of your life? Celebrating your love? Those things are invaluable.
The goal of a program like this is to accelerate the process of calling in your person. If it’s true desire of your heart, it will happen for you. It’s just a matter of time. But what if you could go through that evolution faster? So there’s fewer years, months, and minutes that you aren’t with your person?
Oh, you wanted some specifics?
Well, to go through the course content each week and the live coaching calls will take just a few hours. How much time you devote to the work beyond the curriculum is up to you. I would suggest you have at least 10-20 minutes per day to journal and do some of the other assignment, and then several hours per week where you’ll be dating and interacting with potential matches.
You will have access to the course content and call recordings forever, though. If you’re a little busy and can’t participate full out while we’re going through the program live, you’ll still get plenty of value whenever you decide to dive in.
Q: How many hours will I need to devote to this to get awesome results?
Well, that’s not really a question…
But I think I get what you’re saying.
First of all, that isn’t true. Men want commitment, but they’re not giving it out willy-nilly. Even notorious bachelors (I’m talking about you Prince Harry & George Clooney) settle down when it’s right for them. They just won’t be cornered into it.
And that’s a good thing.
For your person you will be that woman…
...the one who makes him WANT to step up (and you don’t need to be a stunning 36 year old size 2 actress or human rights lawyer to be that woman). You can be that woman just by being the most attractive, authentic, magnetic version of yourself, and learning how to fully lean back.
We’re covering all of this in Modules 4 & 5.
Q: I’m happy to do the work, but doesn’t seem like most guys want commitment and that’s out of my control…
You don’t need more dudes, you need a shift in perception, my dear.
Your person is in your field somewhere. When you are truly clear on what you desire and ready to call him in, he’ll appear. You don’t need MORE guys to find YOUR guy. It just takes one.
The magnetism that I keep talking about is more than physical, it’s happening on every plane. When you step into that, your person will be able to find you, even if he’s one of 36 guys in your town.
You’re getting overly focused on the HOW, and that’s not your job. You don’t need to push, or force, or try to make something happen.
As women, our superpower in love is becoming magnets. We’re not meant to go out and hunt for our person. Our power (and empowerment) is in calling him in and allowing him the space to pursue.
Q: There just aren’t that many guys where I live/I work in a female field/I just don’t have a lot of opportunity to meet men, how will this work?
Here’s what I know to be true: you can shift in an instant.
And everything is about perception.
In your whole life, 6-weeks is not a huge chunk of a time. But for the kind of focused-attention, content, feedback, and coaching you’ll be getting from me during that period…
It is major.
Love is an area where you can make quantum leaps. You don’t need to go from never having had a relationship or only dating bad boys and then baby step it up. You can change your whole perception of yourself and of men and relationships fast.
And that’s what we’ll do as we upgrade your Love BlueprintTM in Module 1 and re-write your love story in Module 3. You will begin to immediately notice shifts not only in how you feel about yourself, but also how other people begin to respond to you as you firm up your boundaries and step in to a more empowered and magnetic version of yourself.
Q: This is something I’ve been struggling with forever, can 6 weeks actually make a difference?
If I could, I would just hand deliver your perfect match to you and sit on your shoulder over the first few months coaching you through any potential issues that come up.
But short of that…
I’ve created this program as the next best thing.
Here’s what I can tell you: it’ll work, if you work it.
Magnetize Your Match is taking an inside out approach to calling in the love of your life. Meaning, you’re not going to be tricking, pushing, or playing games to “catch a man.” You’re going to step into the version of you who is passionate, confident, and happy — so much so that she inevitably calls in her perfect match (as well as a slew of other great potential matches, fun, and opportunity).
If you are a kind, smart, successful woman who genuinely wants to call in a committed, loving relationship, it will work for you.
Any ideas you have about not being smart enough, attractive enough, not meeting enough men because you work in a female dominated industry/are shy/live in a small town...we’re gonna bust through those in Module 1 as you lay the foundation for calling in the relationship of your dreams.
Q: How do I know if this will work for ME? What kind of results can I expect?