Chelsea Coleman

7-FIGURE ENTREPRENEUR STRUGGLING TO GET PAST THE THIRD DATE TO ENGAGED WITH A 5 CARAT ENGAGEMENT RING TO HER KIND, DRIVEN, THOUGHTFUL, ROMANTIC, FUN SOULMATE (not to mention he’s also GORGEOUS, TALL, WEALTHY and FIT, and absolutely adores her.) 

CASE STUDY

Technically she went from single to ENGAGED in 3 months, but to many of you reading this that just sounds “impossible” or “crazy” or “desperate” (even if you’d love nothing more than to be engaged to your person) and you’d poo poo everything that follows ONLY because you don’t yet understand the TRUTH about time and how to collapse it. 

When she first came to me she was clueless on how to get from the butterflies and excitement of initial infatuation to the seemingly delicate dance of dating in a way that would actually get a guy to commit. (I say seemingly because dating only SEEMS like a challenge when you’re expanding and contracting your energy as you’re trying to GET something from a man that he doesn’t want to give happily. Once you’re in an expansive energy with YOUR person the relationship can be fun, easy, and aligned so that you can quickly move into commitment with clarity and certainty.) 

She found herself stuck on a humiliating hamster wheel: meet a guy, start to like him, he ghosts, meet a guy, start to like him, he ghosts, and on and on. That had been her pattern for a year when she had her FTS moment and hired me. (FYI, there’s no need to wait til you’re at that moment that you feel like you can’t take it anymore to hire me).

She didn’t realize she was settling because the guys she was meeting were great on paper. “Total catches that she should be lucky to have!” Good looking. Well off. Ambitious. Blah blah blah.  

Neither did Chelsea. 

But in practice? They were not showing up like men in love who at long last had finally found their queen to love and cherish, but more like travelers seeking to invoke Westerosi Guest Rights with a warm bed and a meal as respite from the night’s cold after stumbling across her doorstep. 

One doesn’t stumble across the doorstep of a goddess.

But they didn’t recognize her as such because like so many other successful women, she lowered her standards in a last ditch effort to get what she wanted. 

She thought... 

..“maybe I’m expecting too much,” 
...“maybe he’ll change over time,” 
...“maybe I’m too intimidating to the kind of masculine men that I truly desire.” 

Um, no.

I get the logic, but that’s just not how that works.

Here’s the truth...

...ambition, success, and outgoing personality would be a PERFECT FIT for HER PERSON and one of the most attractive things about her. Not “intimidating” or something that would drive a good man off. 

...so long as she accepted stale breadcrumbs when she wanted a 7-tier wedding cake with custom cake toppers with an uncanny resemblance to Barbie and Ken, she wouldn’t be able to create the kind of massive transformation and epic soulmate love she craved.

...95%+ of the high-earning, ambitious, successful women I work with *think* they’re being too picky and I’ve YET to have a client where that was actually the case. Lowering her standards wasn’t going to help her attract the Man of Her Life (and it won’t help you either)

So what did she do…

She committed 100%. To the work. To herself. And to her man, when she found him. She came to me because she wanted to get MARRIED. None of this, “oh, I’d maybe like to find my next boyfriend or ideally my soulmate and just see how it goes” bullshit. She knew what she wanted and she claimed it.

She didn’t assume that even though she hadn’t yet created what she desired she still somehow knew exactly how to create it. No, she came to me because she wanted help and she embraced my guidance with both arms. 

She MASTERED THE ENERGETICS OF MAN-IFESTING LOVE. Chelsea was already great at manifesting in her life, but she had no idea what it truly took to magnetize love with a high-frequency man. We took the work beyond vision boarding and affirmations so that she could actually manifest a man who had EVERYTHING she desired down to her height requirements. 

Chelsea went from single to engaged in less than 6 months DURING the 2020 Coronavirus Pandemic. She and her husband were married in January 2021 in her dream wedding. 

Chelsea says, “It is the most amazing feeling to be with someone who wants you as much as you want them. It’s true love. Looking back at relationships I had in the past, they just weren’t even on the same level. From day one, he’s just truly made me feel like a queen. Crystal, I can’t thank you enough because working with you completely changed my mindset. I’m SO thankful I worked with you!”