You want a Prince, yet you’re dating like a commoner. How long before you take the reins and create your own
Happily Ever After?
Make or break question for successful, high-achieving women who still aren’t happily coupled up — and frankly aren’t finding much pleasure or success from dating…
If you guessed settling for men that aren’t actually interested in just for the sake of being in a relationship...you’d be wrong.
If you guessed being totally passive and submissive so as to never irritate, annoy, or anger a guy...you’d be wrong.
If you guessed memorizing scripts, playing games, or following any of the other hundreds of dating strategies or tactics touted by so called “experts”...you’d be wrong.
you're amazing
I mean, let's face it:
You’re living in a nice home, your friends adore you, and you’re killing it in your career.
But for some reason, you’re dating life just isn’t on the same level as everything else.
Sure, you get dates. But they’re not always with the kind of man you’d actually see yourself with.
Unfortunately, with the guys who initially seem to have real potential (read: guys you’re actually interested in)...the relationships seems to fizzle out faster than you can add “thank u, next” to your Another One Bites the Dust Spotify breakup playlist.
I never thought I would sign up for any sort of relationship course, but I felt drawn to this one and I am so happy with my decision. I took a long hard look at myself to remove blocks, wrong patterns and false limits I didn’t even know were there. I am confident in the future of my love life.
RENEE S.
I went through Breakup Bootcamp and found healing, then I followed your steps for Magnetizing Love and I did it! I manifested him! Recently I started dating a guy I met at work — I felt attracted but stayed away initially. We built a friendship, and now we’re moving toward commitment. I’ve even met his family. Your work is gold.
ANA
I met someone! We've been dating for about 2 months and he's amazing in so many ways. He's incredibly kind, giving, and always puts me first. We're compatible in so many ways, and we get along great.
AMELIA
Through Crystal’s coaching, I manifested what was truly important to me in a relationship and what type of man I was seeking. By doing this, it kept me from considering any potential man who wasn't what I wanted or needed in my life, no matter how enticing it seemed at the moment. I've found a wonderful man. He fits the list — all of it...
HANNAH
Crystal taught me to be ready and willing to receive, instead of constantly putting in effort in a way that never came back to me. I’m now with a man who serves me constantly — cooks for me, makes me coffee, changes my oil, buys me gifts — all without me asking
Kelsey S.
He's super interested and comes on strong.
He’s assertive and confident. He asks you out and when you meet he’s engaged, and attentive, and it seems like you could have really found a great fit! I mean it’s not every day that you feel chemistry with someone, so of course you’re excited when this happens.
The date goes great, you had so much in common. You can hardly wait to see him again.
You get a “good morning, beautiful” text and you’re going back and forth for hours.
At the end of your second amazing date he makes it pretty clear that you should do it again. Of course, you want to see him again. He says, “I’ll call you” with one more sweet, delicious kiss. Such a perfect gentleman. He didn’t even try anything.
You float into your front door and right away just send him a text saying “I had such a great time” with the heart eyed-emoji. I mean, you’re a modern woman, You don’t believe in these antiquated old rules that say you can never initiate any kind of contact. Plus, you just had such an amazing time, he was clearly feeling the same connection and chemistry that you were.
Yes, you were right! He responds back with a "me too, :-). "
You just know he’s hooked.
But you’re sure he’s busy. And then another day. On the third day you’re feeling jittery and restless. You tell yourself it’s probably just too much coffee (even though you had your usual amount). But you’re not ready to admit that it’s anxiety and fear wreaking havoc on your peace and focus.
After the 327th time of reflexively reaching for your phone, you finally put it in your desk drawer so it’s not sitting there taunting you forcing you to reach out to “check your email” every 9.4 seconds.
Nope, he hasn’t emailed. Or texted. Or WhatsApp'd.
Your brain isn’t helping you much so you turn to your friends instead. 3 say no, 2 say yes.
You figure your vote counts twice, the yes’s win, you’re texting him!
Oh, the three dots — he’s typing!
The dots disappear.
But...
No response.
And let’s be real...you know you’re an amazing woman, but you’re not looking for some mythical creature with Channing Tatum’s body, Bill Gates money, and Bradley Cooper’s good looks and down-to-earth boyish charm.
Is that too much to ask?!
You just want committed relationship with chemistry, connection, and compatibility with a solid, stable, loving man that you’re attracted to, can have fun with and build a life together.
No. It's not...
… you deserve to be able to approach dating without anxiety of being ghosted or investing your heart in relationships that never move beyond their potential.
… you deserve a happy, healthy, loving relationship with someone who gets you and you can really connect with on multiple levels.
… you deserve to be able to finally celebrate happy occasions with your friends and family without feeling a slight twinge of envy landing on your heart as you notice everyone else is happily coupled up.
I’m going to show you how to finally tip the scales in your favor so that for the first time in your life you wanna write #blessed under a picture of you with your person.
And the good news is…
(I mean, you’re still gonna be you, so of course you’re not gonna do it, but the urge will be there).
All that is possible and so much more. There is a way that you can go from this nonsense to being treated like gold by every man you meet and happily coupled up with the best one
And that’s the distinction — for me.
Because most of the guys were capable of being that person for someone. But it wasn’t going to be for me. And I’m not the only one who has had relationships where they weren’t “that person.” For whatever reason.
I know I’m not the only ones who would pine over those relationships. Almost relishing in the pain of being unloved like some sort of emotional-sadist, while wondering out loud to my friends, “why can’t he just let me love him? Why is he so scared of commitment and being close?”
He wasn’t scared of committing. He was making a choice not to. And I was settling.
I hear women talking about settling for situations that aren’t settling. And they talk about relationships, where they’re clearly settling as if the guy is the most miraculous human to walk the earth.
Assuming you’re attracted to and like the person…
Being with someone who is kind and stable... isn’t settling.
Being with someone who is consistent...isn’t settling.
Being with someone who is devoted to you...isn’t settling.
You’d be devastated to be in the same place you are now in a year. But if you want something different you need to *be* different. And I know it’s hard to hear because I’ve been there, too.
A few short but love-filled years ago, I set the intention for 2016 to be the year I met the man I’d been dreaming about. At the beginning of the year I started to get crystal-clear on what I wanted him to be like, and felt an intuitive nudge to move to NYC.
After just three short months in New York, I’d found him.
When I mastered the energy of being a Duchess, amazing men were magnetized to me. Including the incredible man I now call my husband.
A few short but love-filled years ago, I set the intention for 2016 to be the year I met the man I’d been dreaming about. At the beginning of the year I started to get crystal-clear on what I wanted him to be like, and felt an intuitive nudge to move to NYC.
After just three short months in New York, I’d found him.
When I mastered the energy of being a Duchess, amazing men were magnetized to me. Including the incredible man who's now my husband.
I'm Crystal Irom
INTRODUCING
A one-of-a-kind series to shift your mindset and change your ways so you can go from endless left-swipes and mind-numbing bad dates to manifesting your very own Happily Ever After from a place of confidence, knowing your worth and creating the life you deserve.
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We build on here to embrace the energy of the Duchess. She navigates life with intention and clear desires. Her path is clear of worries about “how” and figuring it all out, and she’s at peace with herself, having dealt with any subconscious blocks to her desires and her fears surrounding relationships. We’ll meditate on where love is truly found, and redefine standards and sacrifice.
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This session is all about embodying the highest version of yourself — the Duchess version of you who is in a happy, healthy, loving relationship with a man who absolutely adores and cherishes you. We’ll examine the ways you’ve been showing up like a Commoner in your love life, and how to make the necessary shifts that get you the results you’re worthy of.
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Finally, I’ll reveal the Duchess who inspired the series! (It’s not who you think…) We’ll look at how her story reveals a man’s motivations and how he’ll behave when he truly wants to make it work with his Duchess. We’ll also work through what you can do from the beginning of a relationship to ensure it doesn’t fall apart before it really gets started. Plus, we’ll identify how you can claim your desires and never settle for anything less.
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HERE’S WHAT WE’RE COVERING IN THIS POWERFUL 3-PART PROGRAM
PART I: RECOGNIZING AND RELEASING YOUR COMMONER BEHAVIORS
NEXT - PART II
You’ll learn the important distinction between instinct and intuition. Chances are, you’re operating from the wrong place and it’s sending a clear subconscious signal to high-quality man that you’re not wife material.
I’m here for the nuts-and-bolts so we’ll dive straight into the heart of the matter in this first session all about embodying the highest version of yourself — the Duchess version of you who is in a happy, healthy, loving relationship with a man who absolutely adores and cherishes you. We’ll examine the ways you’ve been showing up like a Commoner in your love life, and how to make the necessary shifts that get you the results you’re worthy of. You’ll discover:
The Commoner behaviors that drive men away (that women are rarely aware they’re doing).
The real reason why you’re not attractive to the men that are most attracted to you and why the guys you like are never interested or willing to commit.
I'M READY TO SIGN UP NOW!
PART II: BECOMING AN IRRESISTIBLE DUCHESS IN DATING
NEXT - PART III
The distinction between standards, boundaries, and expectations. You’ll understand which you need to keep high and which ones you need to keep low to make dating easy and fun so you can quickly call in your match.
Once you’ve got a solid foundation to understand the energy of a Duchess and the energy of a Commoner, we build on that so you can fully embrace the energy of the Duchess. She navigates life with intention and clear desires. Her path is clear of worries about “how” and figuring it all out, and she’s at peace with herself, having dealt with any subconscious blocks to her desires and her fears surrounding relationships. You’ll discover:
The important role that your subconscious mind is playing in your romantic relationships and why it’s key that you learn how to rewire your brain for love.
Plus, I’m sharing an incredible meditation to help you call in the love of your life. (This alone is worth the entire cost of the program!)
I'M READY TO SIGN UP NOW!
Part III: UNDERSTANDING MEN IN LOVE
You’ll learn the important distinction between instinct and intuition. Chances are, you’re operating from the wrong place and it’s sending a clear subconscious signal to high-quality man that you’re not wife material.
Of course, the best is saved for last as we finally pull everything together so that you can easily apply all this teaching to your love life in a practical way to experience massive results immediately. You’ll discover:
The Duchess who inspired the series! (Trust me, it’s not who you think…) We’ll look at how her story reveals a man’s motivations and how he’ll behave when he truly wants to make it work with his Duchess. This example packs a massive punch, and will transform the way you think about men.
The real reason why you’re not attractive to the men that are most attracted to you and why the guys you like are never interested or willing to commit.
I'M READY TO SIGN UP NOW!
Stop dating the guy...
… who embarrasses you and puts you down
Ahem, “I love having someone who challenges me”
… who flakes out on your plans repeatedly.
I see you, “he’s multi-passionate, ambitious, and has so much going on at work and his life.”
… who doesn’t want to have a committed, exclusive relationship with you.
Because, believe it or not, mere mortals can understand your love and labels really aren’t passe, they just help define things.
Every one of those guys has chosen to see you as the commoner.
You’re the woman he is choosing to spend time with until the woman who’s his Duchess comes along. And she will come along.
You’ll know because … he’ll cherish her … he’ll show up for her … he’ll label her over and over.
Girlfriend. Best friend. Love of my life. Fiance. Wife.
When I mastered the energy of being a Duchess, amazing men were magnetized to me.
Including the incredible man I now call my husband. It was just a shift I needed to fully understand and embody that allowed massive transformation in my life. The same transformation is possible for you. Taking this program is the perfect next step.
Crystal Irom
xx,
AMELIA
I met someone!
We've been dating for about 2 months and he's amazing in so many ways. He's incredibly kind, giving, and always puts me first. We're compatible in so many ways, and we get along great.
Your work helped me learn to stop playing a role to avoid scaring away an emotionally-unavailable guy. Instead, I'd give them the time and space to make the effort to be with me!
I met someone and we're "official"!
He's outgoing, funny, respectufl, and understanding and smart. He puts my needs and wants as a priority. He's just really thoughtful and sweet. He makes me feel so special.
I'm so happy — I didn't think I'd end up with a boyfriend so quickly!
LORE
Through Crystal’s coaching, I manifested what was truly important to me in a relationship and what type of man I was seeking. By doing this, it kept me from considering any potential man who wasn't what I wanted or needed in my life, no matter how enticing it seemed at the moment. I've found a wonderful man. He fits the list — all of it...
HANNAH
Crystal taught me to be ready and willing to receive, instead of constantly putting in effort in a way that never came back to me. I’m now with a man who serves me constantly — cooks for me, makes me coffee, changes my oil, buys me gifts — all without me asking
Kelsey S.
I went through Breakup Bootcamp and found healing, then I followed your steps for Magnetizing Love and I did it! I manifested him! Recently I started dating a guy I met at work — I felt attracted but stayed away initially. We built a friendship, and now we’re moving toward commitment. I’ve even met his family. Your work is gold.
ANA